Tinnitus: easing the distress when the noise won't go away
A whistling that nobody else can hear, which fills the quiet of the evening and eats into your nights. This guide first sets out which signs mean you should see a doctor quickly, then explains why the distress varies so much from one person to another. It then offers a step-by-step method, drawn from the therapies that have proved themselves, so that a sound that will not go away stops running your days and your sleep.
Dr Zayan Al-Falasi, psychiatrist
In short
This guide is for adults who have been hearing tinnitus for weeks or years and who suffer because of this sound. It begins with what is a matter for the doctor or the ENT specialist, the doctor who specialises in the ears, and with the signs that mean you should seek medical advice quickly. It then explains what research has established: no medicine silences tinnitus, but cognitive behavioural therapy genuinely reduces the distress, including online, and hearing aids are useful when hearing has declined. Finally, it offers a step-by-step method for monitoring the sound less, no longer running from silence, protecting your ears without overprotecting them, getting your sleep back, coming to terms with everyday noises and getting through the spikes.
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- Stress & burnout · Sleep · Anxiety
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- For yourself
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The programme
This guide is psychoeducational content. It does not replace a consultation. A sudden drop in hearing, in one ear or both, is an emergency: get examined the same day, by an ENT specialist, the doctor who specialises in the ear, nose and throat, or at the emergency department, and within twenty-four hours at the latest, because prompt treatment can improve recovery. Also seek medical advice without waiting, at the emergency department if necessary, if the tinnitus comes with violent vertigo, weakness or paralysis of the face, difficulty speaking or weakness on one side of the body, if it appeared after a blow to the head or at the same time as a sudden and unusual headache, or if it has suddenly started to beat in time with your heart. Tinnitus on one side only, or tinnitus that has been beating in time with your heart for some time, calls for a prompt appointment with an ENT specialist (see section 2). If this noise makes you think about dying, talk about it the same day to your doctor, to someone close to you or to a suicide prevention line; in immediate danger, call the emergency services in your country. Never change a prescribed treatment on your own. Allow fifty-five minutes to read.
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What the rest contains
- 3. What tinnitus is
- 4. Why the distress varies so much from one person to another
- 5. What research says: what helps
- 6. What does not work, or is not proven
- 7. Taking stock: two weeks of observation
- 8. Step 1: relaxing the body
- 9. Step 2: monitoring the sound less
- 10. Step 3: answering the thoughts that turn the sound into a threat
- 11. Step 4: no longer running from silence
- 12. Step 5: protecting your ears without overprotecting them
- 13. Step 6: getting your nights back
- 14. Step 7: making room for the sound rather than fighting it
- 15. Step 8: taking back what the tinnitus has taken
- 16. Hyperacusis: when ordinary noises become too loud
- 17. Spikes: when the sound gets louder
- 18. Mood, anxiety and suicidal thoughts
- 19. Particular situations
- 20. For family and friends
- 21. When to seek help, and from whom
- 22. Eight weeks, step by step
- 23. Frequently asked questions
- 24. Key points
- 25. Sources and foundations
Frequently asked questions
Will my tinnitus go away? Recent tinnitus sometimes goes away by itself, and the distress caused by established tinnitus tends to come down a little over time. Yet no treatment guarantees silence. The method in this guide acts on something else, the place the sound takes up: your nights, your attention, what you do with your days.
Am I going to go deaf? Tinnitus itself does not make you deaf: it is a perception produced by the auditory system, not a disease that damages the ear. It is rather the other way round: it often goes with a hearing loss that is already there, which audiometry measures and a hearing aid can compensate for. Protect your ears from loud noise, and tell your doctor about any drop in hearing, especially if it is sudden.
If I'm offered CBT, does that mean people think it's all in my head? No. The sound comes from the auditory system, and nobody claims otherwise. CBT acts on what the brain does with this sound: the monitoring, the fear, the insomnia, the withdrawal. It is the approach whose effectiveness is best established, and the guidelines put it first.
Is there an effective medicine or supplement? No medicine and no supplement has been shown to reduce the tinnitus itself, and the guidelines advise against taking them for that purpose. Treatment can, on the other hand, be useful for associated depression, anxiety or insomnia, and that decision is made with the doctor.
Should I wear earplugs all the time? No. Keep them for genuinely loud noise, such as a concert, noisy tools or a building site. Worn in ordinary places, they risk making everyday sounds harder to bear.
Can a white noise app help me? It can soften the contrast with silence and help you fall asleep, as long as the sound stays low and does not become indispensable: what keeps the distress going is no longer being able to stay a minute in the quiet. Studies do not show that sound, on its own, treats tinnitus. The Haute Autorité de santé recommends it alongside other approaches, such as CBT: it is therefore a useful support, not a treatment on its own.
Can I still go to concerts? Yes, with suitable protection, as the Haute Autorité de santé and the Assurance Maladie recommend for loud noise. If the sound gets louder the next day, the spike plan applies. A drop in hearing that persists should be shown to an ENT specialist.
Does stress make my tinnitus louder? Often, yes: the Assurance Maladie lists tiredness and stress among the circumstances that make it more intense. Stress puts the body on alert and makes attention more vigilant, so the sound seems more present and harder to bear. That is why relaxation and work on thoughts often reduce the distress, even when the loudness does not change.
Can a hearing aid help if my hearing is "more or less fine"? If audiometry shows hearing loss, even slight, a hearing aid can be discussed with the ENT specialist and the hearing aid audiologist, and the Haute Autorité de santé then provides for a two-month trial. Without hearing loss, the guidelines do not suggest one.
How long before I feel better? The programmes evaluated lasted from three to twenty-two weeks, and in the British online trial, the improvement could be seen from the fourth week. Allow several weeks of regular practice before judging, and judge by the distress, not the loudness.